When is it up to them?

There comes a time, I think, when we listen with compassion and caring and then have to say, "I regret you think that and this really is your problem." *sigh*

I know that doesn't make sense out of context and ... the woman was given every opportunity that every other woman in the group was given. Her expectations were just too high and we didn't meet them. With no idea of course that we were doing something unsatisfactory in her sight. I think we do the best we can - care for each other the best we can - listen and be aware - and then we have to let it go. We are all responsible for ourselves - for speaking up for ourselves, for claiming our own power and need.

Very random ~ still thinking it through ~ with blessings